So the term is rapidly drawing to a close and your thoughts are turning towards heading back to your parents’ house for the Christmas holidays. You may even be there already. Here are a few tips for making the most of the break:
1. Have a break!
I’m sure pretty much everyone will have exams upon returning to Manchester in January, but even so it’s important to give yourself some time off before gettin stuck into revision. Otherwise, next term will start and you’ll be knackered before you even begin. When I was at uni I had a rule whereby I wouldn’t do any academic work between breaking up and Christmas day/celebrations. It seemed to work pretty well.
2. Talk to your parents about Manchester.
It’s really easy to just get home and slip into teenage grunts and groans – not really talking to anyone unless it involves food or borrowing the car. It’s understandable too – you’re knackered and just want to relax and get over any end-of-termitis. But your parents/grandparents etc will be desperate to know how your term’s gone. Not just academically either, they’ll be interested about church, halls, silly anecdotes… everything! They’ve done so much in making it possible for you to be away at uni so it’s nice to honour them by making them feel involved in what’s going on.
3. Stay on-the-ball spiritually.
I used to find the holidays really difficult on my faith – I was away from a thriving church and even found personal stuff such as praying/reading the Bible more difficult to do even though I had lots more time floating around. My advice: make sure you’re pro-active in carving out time to be alone with God on a regular basis. Also, don’t feel like you can’t get in touch with us/your lifegroup just cos you’re away from Manchester – you’re only a text/call/facebook away from some support if you need it!
4. Meet up with old school friends.
I’m sure you’ll be doing this anyway, but it’s always good to catch up with old freinds and share stories from the past term. You’ll find that as ther terms and years go by you’ll drift somewhat from your school friends, and that’s perfectly normal, but it’s good to keep relationships going if you can. Alos, make sure you talk to them about what God has been doing with you this term – it might be a really good way of talking about your faith in a new way with people that you’ve known for years. You’ll be amazed at how much leaving school affects people in terms of opening their minds to stuff.
Well that’s it for now. Have an awesome Christmas and we look forward to welcoming you back in 2010!
God bless







